Daddy Daydreamer

What it felt like becoming a father

Dad and son

I remember the stifling heat the day our first child was born. I remember taking my wife for a slow walk around the neighbourhood, holding her hand.

I remember taking her to the hospital, meeting our midwife there. I remember the birthing room, airy and comfortable. I remember the air conditioning.

I remember sitting in the tub . . .

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August 02, 2020

A pandemic virtual travel tour

We can't really travel that much, so I dug out some poems from previous travels. I hope it gives you a feel for these places.

Forest walk to Witty's Lagoon

Witty's Lagoon

cool forest march
breathe mist
get the gist
prehistoric machination
giant fern fascination
mossy acer macrophyllum
look up! 
smell the ocean

tide is out
sit on driftwood
unwrap your . . .

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July 22, 2020

The Reckoning

A rant

Bringing in the overseer for the reckoning

Image: Weidenbach / CC BY-SA


Somethin' brewin' in my mind
can't pinpoint malaise I will in time
so much conflict strife bad news
sometimes I think what's to lose

do I sit back in comfort nest retreat
do I stand up for what I believe
ay there's the rub what do I believe
beyond platitudes and saying
the fashionable . . .

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June 13, 2020

Between a rock and a kind place

Pay it forward. Make the world a little better

Community caring rock garden, Carson Grove Elementary School, Ottawa

Community caring rock garden, near Carson Grove Elementary School, Ottawa

Small acts of kindness can pay large dividends. Those who give these small acts may not be aware of all their effects. But they can create ripples of goodwill down the road.

I like to run in the morning, before my kids wake up. Calms my mind. Exercise . . .

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May 29, 2020

I am Grateful

A poem

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I am grateful for my mistakes,
anxieties and fears
they give rise to my courage,
for those I hold dear

I am grateful for having
been broken, in pain
so hope can rebuild,
dissolve all the blame

I am grateful to be alive;
my next breath fills my lungs
I am grateful to feel old
and also feel young

I am grateful in every . . .

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May 08, 2020

Poems to be alone together

Yellow moon

Image: Pxhere

One thing my family is doing more of during isolation is reading together. My boys dusted off some old standbys—the Harry Potter series.

As my younger son read The Philosopher's Stone, my older son read The Half-Blood Prince. I stared at them. When did they get so old?

I was moved to write some poems . . .

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April 28, 2020

Just another Saturday in isolation


Image: Sarah C, Creative Commons

SHE MAKES MUFFINS and pancakes, boys read at kitchen table. Cat suns herself by patio door. Mush, mush, she mixes ingredients in stainless steel mixing bowl, green plastic mixing bowl to her right. She reads recipe on top of microwave. Grabs some things out of fridge, crunch crunch, cracks eggs. . . .

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April 19, 2020


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