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A mother and her son; a father and his mom

Mother and son

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The first article I ever posted to this blog was about my mom. She exerted a gravity on me as a child that laid my foundation to be a stay-at-home dad for over six years.

This is my 100th and final blog post on Daddy Daydreamer. I find a serenity and symmetry closing this chapter of my . . .

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August 27, 2020

The Uncertainty Principle

A poem

Two shoes with arrows pointing in different directions

Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash

THE UNCERTAINTY PRINCIPLE

The dread of uncertainty
at times wish I were dead
unproductive thoughts
run amok in my head

stuck in the middle
caught in a rut
I close my eyes,
breathe ...
listen to the dawn;
crickets, gulls,
a low-lying hum

clock radio blinks
every second counts,
present moving
to past;
. . .

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August 20, 2020

Between a rock and a kind place

Pay it forward. Make the world a little better

Community caring rock garden, Carson Grove Elementary School, Ottawa

Community caring rock garden, near Carson Grove Elementary School, Ottawa

Small acts of kindness can pay large dividends. Those who give these small acts may not be aware of all their effects. But they can create ripples of goodwill down the road.

I like to run in the morning, before my kids wake up. Calms my mind. Exercise . . .

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May 29, 2020

I am Grateful

A poem

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I AM GRATEFUL

I am grateful for my mistakes,
anxieties and fears
they give rise to my courage,
for those I hold dear

I am grateful for having
been broken, in pain
so hope can rebuild,
dissolve all the blame

I am grateful to be alive;
my next breath fills my lungs
I am grateful to feel old
and also feel young

I am grateful in every . . .

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May 08, 2020

Just another Saturday in isolation

Pancakes

Image: Sarah C, Creative Commons

SHE MAKES MUFFINS and pancakes, boys read at kitchen table. Cat suns herself by patio door. Mush, mush, she mixes ingredients in stainless steel mixing bowl, green plastic mixing bowl to her right. She reads recipe on top of microwave. Grabs some things out of fridge, crunch crunch, cracks eggs. . . .

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April 19, 2020

How lucky I am to be married to my wife

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There was a cool breeze that day one May on the Thirsty Moose patio. Traffic whizzed by every now and then. My wife and kids had gone to the bathroom. I sat at the table with my mother-in-law.

She reminded me how lucky I am to be married to her daughter.

Yes, I am very fortunate. Thank you for raising such a wonderful person.

. . .

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February 14, 2020

It is possible to recover from mental illness

Find someone to trust. People will help

A range of emojis

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IT IS POSSIBLE

It is possible to live a good life.

I know you may not think so right now. I know it's hard to even get out of bed sometimes, let alone hold down a job or raise a family, to even take care of yourself. You might even find it hard to look someone in the eye, . . .

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January 29, 2020

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